Episodes
Miquita Oliver is joined by Mo Gilligan to answer your questions on SECONDARY SCHOOL... chatting about their favourite teachers, subjects, what ‘tribe’ they were part of, and when you really become who you are.From Yorkie bars to Space Raiders, they get nostalgic about snacks and we hear about Miquita's time at SIX schools. Yes, SIX.So settle down, school's in session!You can message Miss Me? on WhatsApp at https://wa.me/447849030711Get bonus Listen Bitch! content and recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from the Miss Me? Library each Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow t...
Bloc Party’s Kele Okereke joins his friend of 20 years, Miquita Oliver, to share how much online abuse he’s received in the last few months. Kele says he’s never felt anything like it directed to him on this scale since Bloc Party’s latest album was released. They also get into learning an instrument later in life, making mistakes in parenting and the Popworld inspired moment that started their friendship.Miss Me? Is brought to you by Wagamama - Head into your local Wagamama to try Fish and Chip Ramen today.Miss Me? Is brought to you by Ecover - Make the clothes you love last longer. Wear o...
Miquita and Jordan answer your questions on CLASS. Working class, middle class, upper class, and everything in between.They discuss when they realised what class they were born into and how that’s changed throughout their lives.And… do celebrities consider themselves a class of their own? They discuss how they feel about fame, class and how it’s entwined with societal pressure.Next time we've got MO GILLIGAN joining Miquita to answer your questions on SECONDARY SCHOOL. Don't hold back - we've all got stories about that oh-so special period in our lives. Send us your questions as a voice not...
Good news - Lena Dunham’s Girls is coming back! Bad news - are women ‘broken’? Miquita and Jordan have a lot to say on both these topics. From being inspired by the TV antics of female friendships in New York, to being curious about the words Smashing Pumpkins’ Billy Corgan used to discuss his age-gap relationship this week. ‘Tis the season, natch, for pumpkins so there’s a sprinkling of Halloween past and present too.Miss Me? Is brought to you by Zenidog - Help your dog feel safe and secure this Bonfire Night with Zenidog Calming Gel Diffusers, which are available from veterinary practices...
Miquita remembers how Pinocchio scarred her for life, and Jordan is shocked to learn the original fairytales were even darker. Jordan is also back on his Space Jam bullshit and deep dives how the show changed the course of his life. He reflects on what Lola Bunny taught us about strong, independent women. Plus, kinda wild that the ninja turtles were actually ripped.Next week, we’re after your voice note questions on CLASS. Upper. Middle. Working. Touch of. We want to hear your stories. WhatsApp Miss Me? on https://wa.me/447849030711Extra questions of Listen Bitch! Drop every Friday at patre...
Miquita shares how she helped Lily through a high-stakes divorce. They’re hard. And horrible. So Jordan asks why it’s easier to get married than go through the legal drama of separation. And a heads up that in this episode we talk about sexual themes you might find distressing. Do take care when listening. That’s because there’s big news in the world of online porn, as the government has announced content showing ‘choking’ or incest will be banned. Jordan and Miquita reflect on how their own porn habits have changed throughout their lives.Plus, Jordan has been getting mad at people calling ...
Miquita and Jordan gleefully chat about their favourite TV series moments whilst answering your questions. They discuss the shows that raised us, the ones that aged like milk, and why our perspectives completely shift when we watch them through adult eyes.They get brutally honest about Sex and the City and why Carrie Bradshaw is actually entitled… maybe we should be more like Samantha?Plus, they break down the phenomenon of rewatching childhood favourites, and reveal which iconic TV character they would each want to embody in real life.WhatsApp us on https://wa.me/447849030711Get some extra...
Miquita and Jordan do not hold back on how the press vultures came at Amy, more so because she happened to be a female pop star. Oasis did not suffer the same scrutiny. Yet the raw genius of Amy Winehouse's Back to Black still stands, 20 years on. She deserved better.Jordan gets Ally of the Year at the Attitude Awards and reveals the thought process behind his speech, and Miquita explains why artist and stage designer Es Devlin’s work means so much to her. Oh, and Jordan’s in Bali, mainly for work but if you’re watching this then you’re welcome for the view of palm trees.Miss Me? Is brought...
Is lying ever kind in relationships? If you were being cheated on, would you want to hear the truth? Miquita and Jordan assess how that’s played out in their past relationships. And - be honest now - did you just make up an excuse not to go out? Does that even count as a lie? Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens tackle your questions on the complexities of wrapping yourself up in lies and the consequences they can bring. Next week, we’re with you on the sofa, after your voice note questions on TV SERIES. The bingeable, the life-altering, the trashy. We want to hear your stories. WhatsApp Miss...
Celebrity Traitors, thank you. Oh, the unbridled joy of watching people actively deceive each other for entertainment in a Scottish castle, even if one of those celebs (Amol) blatantly disregarded the advice that Jordan texted him. Needed that lightness though to counteract the heaviness of the news, because we couldn’t ignore the Cornell 7 story. Both Miquita and Jordan had a lot to say about how triggering that unfolding story has been, and why it horrifyingly speaks so much to the female experience.Miss Me? Is brought to you by Channel 4 - Watch Pierre on Channel 4 this October.Miss Me? ...
In this Listen Bitch! Q&A episode, Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about death. Sounds heavy we know, and it does get emotional, but as we all face the inevitable together there’s so much joy and wisdom to be felt too. Get bonus content and recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaYou can contact Miss Me? on email at hello@missmemissme.com Presented by: Miquita Oliver and Jordan StephensProducer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistan...
Look, relationships are complicated. Yes, we had a thing with the BBC, then we left the BBC, but we never stopped loving the BBC. Miquita and Jordan get into the implications for TV culture with this latest round of BBC cuts. They also talk about why reading is the most dangerous thing you can do right now, and share what it was like to help reveal the Booker Prize shortlist (Miquita) and be the new face of Dr. Marten’s alongside Chloë Sevigny (Jordan).Miss Me? Is brought to you by Channel 4 - Watch Pierre on Channel 4 this October.Get bonus content and recommendations for things to watch o...
Is it a spark? Something to be wary of? Or simply science? Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about ‘chemistry’ in any way you felt like interpreting it. Is that feeling when you click with someone pure chemistry to be trusted, or something else? And will the periodic table even get a mention though? Brace yourselves, next week we’re after your voice note questions on DEATH. WhatsApp us your voice notes on ‘death’ to https://wa.me/447849030711Get weekly recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow the show ...
There’s apologies, and then there’s apologies… Jordan and Miquita debate the politics around Ed Sheeran saying sorry on stage after his support acts left his Loop tour in solidarity with Macklemore, who was previously removed from Ed’s line-up by US stadium owner Robert Kraft. There’s been a lot going on. Meanwhile on Saturday night TV, Miquita considers the true meaning of Strictly with its new hosts Emma Willis, Josh Widdicombe and Johannes Radebe, plus Jordan finds comedy in Rizzle Kicks being spoofed by SNL UK.Get weekly recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from the ...
We really didn’t know where this one would go but thanks Miss Me? listeners, as ever the questions being asked on ‘eras of time’ are iconic. From whether the 90s really were the best, to whether calling everything an ‘era’ now has diluted the power of that word. Somewhere along the way Miquita and Jordan also end up in a debate over whether all celebrities can be called icons or if that’s reserved for the lofty artistic heights of just a few. Next week we’re after your voice note questions on CHEMISTRY. If you want to take it to chemical equations that’s as valid as a deep dive into Ryan Go...
NB: This episode was recorded before Ed Sheeran released this statement about Macklemore leaving his current tour https://www.instagram.com/p/DdT-6KGAtuI/?img_index=1In the week that a US stadium owner had Macklemore removed from Ed Sheeran’s tour, Jordan (who’s known Ed for years) and Miquita get into the wider implications of that whole situation. They also talk through Sydney Sweeney’s pivot to advertising a sports betting firm, and whether sex really does sell everything. Plus they look at the latest plans to shake up what kids eat at school and how that compares with the school dinners...
This bonus episode of Miss Me? Is brought to you by Lush.Jordan and Miquita take to the stage for a special live recording of Miss Me? at Lush Fest 2026 - https://lushfest.lush.com , exploring the rise of the manosphere, misogyny online and what it's doing to the way we connect with one another.Together they discuss modern masculinity, the impact of social media, relationships between men and women, and answer questions from the audience about how we build healthier conversations - both online and in real life. This episode was recorded live as part of Lush Fest - a three-month festival ta...
This week Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens go deep on your questions around games, covering many different meanings of the word. Do you play well? Does your family play well together? Is love a game to be played? Don’t panic, of course Monopoly gets mentioned as does its surprising origin story.Next week the theme is ERAS OF TIME. Where are we all gonna land with this one?! Medieval times? A Victorian parlour? The 1970s? For better or worse?WhatsApp us your voicenote questions on ‘eras of time’ to https://wa.me/447849030711Get weekly recommendations for things to watch or read or listen t...
An apology on Miss Me? led to Miquita joining Fearne Cotton for her latest Happy Place festival, plus Jordan and Keets react to Monty Don’s decision to leave Gardener’s World. And why was it the books we consider children’s classics all got written around about the same time? Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens question what led J.R.R. Tolkien and Lewis Carroll to think up the stories about hobbits and wonderland, and if their imaginations may have been enhanced in any way? Meanwhile looking at TV schedules today, why does violence towards women feature so much, and is violence an inevitabil...
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about rites of passage. From that first rave, that first trying to talk your way into a club underage, to losing your virginity. As always your questions take the lead, and get all of us thinking about how we mark time and if we’ve got our priorities in the right place. Next week the theme is GAMES, however you interpret that word. Brb just playing Cluedo. It was Professor Plum, with the dagger, in the kitchen, obvs. WhatsApp us your voicenote questions on games to https://wa.me/447849030711Get weekly recommendations for things to wat...
The painful truth of loving a pet gets explored as Miquita Oliver returns from holiday to join Jordan Stephens for their weekly catch-up. Alongside the pain is the utter soul-soothing balm of having a pet as part of the family. Plus is carnival actually Black Christmas? Jordan and Miquita had parallel Notting Hill carnival experiences this year, as Keets met up with Lily Allen to get immersed in all the joy and release that Bank Holiday vibe can bring (which partly explains the later than usual drop of this ep too!).Get weekly recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from th...
Jordan Stephens and Sabrina Elba are back to dissect what society deems to be beauty. Is it subjective? Do we just mean healthy? How much have social media filters skewed what we think of how we look? As always, there’s a lot to unpack.Next week Miquita is back with Jordan and after your voice note questions on the topic of RITES OF PASSAGE. WhatsApp them to us on https://wa.me/447849030711Get weekly recommendations for things to watch or read or listen to from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaYou can contact Miss Me?...
Jordan Stephens calls up his friend Sabrina Dhowre Elba to swap tales about people who just don’t shut up in the cinema, and if there can be anything more effective than shhh. They also share their experience of watching The Odyssey (not in IMAX), and go into what led Sabrina to swap a potential law career to start her own skincare brand, and how ethics come into play there too.Get weekly cultural recommendations from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaYou can contact Miss Me? on email at hello@missmemissme.com or via W...
Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton get into your questions about being on time. Is it something you stress about if you’re always running late, or does it bug you if people don’t show up on time? Jordan talks about how time blindness is an aspect of his ADHD that has impacted his life, while Zawe considers how an obsession with time can sometimes miss the point of living.Get weekly cultural recommendations from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/missmeFollow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaYou can contact Miss Me? on email at hello@missmemissme.com or via WhatsApp on...
Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton share everything they know about how they came into the world, the silence and the screams, and the surprising similarities between their birth stories. They talk about how their birth impacted them in adulthood, and whether certain traits can be linked back to those first moments of breathing life. And Zawe shares her two most embarrassingly awful auditions, so if you’ve ever wondered if some stories about acting really are that extreme and awkward then, yep, they are.Get weekly cultural recommendations from the Miss Me? Library every Friday at patreon.com/m...
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions on RESTAURANTS. From when it’s OK to complain or not, and what they’d change about the dining out experience. And is it about time we normalised that table for one?Next week the theme is BEING ON TIME with Zawe Ashton guesting with Jordan. This episode has already been recorded though - so please don’t send in additional questions on this occasion! Normal voice-noting will resume the week after - and for anything else, the WhatsApp is https://wa.me/447849030711Get weekly cultural recommendations from the Miss Me? Library at patreon.co...
Have you ever been visited by an incubus? The sleep sirens come out to play as Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the effects of insomnia, and how sleep paralysis has haunted them both. And as we slide into another heatwave, they take in the changing dusty landscapes of some festivals, while also celebrating the best vibes of partying in queer spaces.Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Katie-Louise Buxton Video Editor: Danny PapeProduction Coordinator: Tom JacksonExecutive Producers: Ellie Clifford & Dino SofosMiss Me? is a Persephonica ...
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens get into why culture glamorises some bad habits, and not others, and when things get embarrassing should you stay home? Oh, and then there was that time Jordan threw a fish at Jason Derulo and still asked to be one of his back-up dancers.Next week the theme is RESTAURANTS! The good, the overpriced, the memorable, the table by the loo? Send your voice note questions on WhatsApp https://wa.me/447849030711Follow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaGet cultural recommendations from the weekly Miss Me? Library at patreon.com/missmeProducer: Natalie Jam...
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens talk about celebrity fandoms, and whether it’s normal to idolise certain people. Miquita discusses her night out with Lily Allen seeing The Oresteia, while Jordan talks about Christoper Nolan’s The Odyssey. They also go into which singers and bands they obsessed over as teenagers, and whether there’s anyone they’d wait outside in the cold for hours to see. Follow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaGet cultural recommendations from the weekly Miss Me? Library at patreon.com/missmeProducer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assist...
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens debate your questions around the substances people take to escape from the world at times, and Miquita reveals she only recently dated soberly for the first time. They get into why alcohol is legal while other mind-altering things are not, and why many of us can be afraid to sit with our feelings. Is it about time we got comfortable with being uncomfortable?Next week the theme is DRUGS - part 2! So much more to explore. Send your voice note questions on WhatsApp https://wa.me/447849030711Follow the show on instagram and TikTok @missme.4evaGet cultural reco...